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Take distance
Hey dear reader Do you ever wonder Who you actually are? Admittedly, this question may be a bit strange now and seems a bit far-fetched when you read this … while you are actually working hard, or busy with the laundry and pee and maybe also a crying baby or a few whining kids around
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The fastest way to boost your love happiness without talking!
In 5 steps to oneThey-lived-long-and-happy mindset Love is a game in which both partners are actively involved. Just like in a compelling party game, it’s all about the constant interaction of action and reaction. That is part of the game. But there is another parallel between the ‘game of love’ and a successful party game:
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The 3 biggest misunderstandings about sex and menopause
The 3 biggest misunderstandings about sex and menopause And how they undermine your relationship Tine and David have settled together in our therapy sofa. At first glance, they seem to be a successful couple: sporty, smiley early fifties, healthy and prosperous, together for almost thirty years. But it soon becomes apparent that their sex life
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The best sex of your life after the transition?
The best sex of your life after the transition? Many couples notice that their sex life changes during and after the transition. Desire is less spontaneous, libido sometimes feels further away than ever and old sexual scripts no longer work. Yet that does not mean a decline, quite the contrary.With the right insights and approach
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The transition: when old patterns no longer work
The transition: when old patterns no longer work When she no longer recognizes herself She looks at him, determined. ‘There is a storm going on in me. Not only in my body, but also in my head and heart.Everything changes. My hormones, my energy, my emotions … and also my sexuality. It’s like I can’t
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Menopause as an inner transformation, but what about your relationship?
Menopause as an inner transformation, but what about your relationship? When the transition interferes with communication ‘I can no longer hide it!’ she says in a dramatic tone. She turns to him: ‘I can no longer tolerate inanimate sex, as if my body is doing something that my heart is not with. And I can
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Resourcing, what is that?
🌿 From Alienation to Connection When we become alienated on a psychological level, it is our own feelings and emotional needs that begin to feel unfamiliar. And yet, we can only truly feel fulfilled when we care for those inner needs. As human beings, we can become alienated on four levels: physical, psychological, social, and
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Does your sex life dry up since the transition? So you will find each other again!
Does your sex life dry up since the transition? So you will find each other again! Spoiler: it’s not what you think and it really works Kor sighs deeply and looks at his partner: ‘It feels like our relationship is slowly bleed to death … I don’t want a sexless marriage, but I don’t know
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Why the transition feels like the downfall of your relationship
Why the transition feels like the downfall of your relationship ‘It sometimes seems like we are in an endless roller coaster,’ Mieke said recently during a session. ‘I get angry faster, say things that I don’t mean … But the harder I try to shake Tom awake, the deeper he crawls into his shell. It